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The relentless pursuit of a “perfect child” is a modern parenting trap, an invisible cage built from good intentions and societal pressure. This mindset, pervasive in today’s achievement-driven culture, often masks a deeper and more profound fear: the fear that our child’s inevitable imperfections are a direct, damning reflection of our own shortcomings as parents. […]
Aim for kids who are less than perfect Read More »
We’ve all been there. You’ve had a long day at work, the traffic was a nightmare, and that promised trip to the park just isn’t going to happen. “Maybe tomorrow,” you say, trying to soften the blow. In that moment, it might feel like a minor setback, a small white lie to get through a
Things that happen when you break promises to your children Read More »
I recently was watching a post-game interview with Draymond Green of the Golden State Warriors, and out of nowhere, he shared a story about one of his teammates. These were his words: “I want to mention something that I saw today that no one will care about. Trayce Jackson-Davis did something on the bench today.
Teaching our kids to be a ‘Me Third’ person Read More »
A lot of us heard our parents say it a thousand times while we were growing up: “Obey your mother and father,” or “Honor your father and mother.” They might have been quoting Ephesians 6:1-3: “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 Honor your father and mother, 3 that it may go well with
A foundation for life Read More »
The internet, parenting magazines and well-meaning advice from family and friends often overwhelm parents with seemingly endless streams of dos and don’ts. From strict parenting styles to permissive ones, the spectrum of approaches actually can blur the vision of what you will and will not do to raise your children to be the best version
Non-traditional practices for raising responsible adults Read More »
Sports are more than just physical activities; they are invaluable laboratories for life lessons. The competitive arena fosters resilience, teaching children to bounce back from setbacks and learn from failures. It instills discipline as athletes grow to understand the importance of dedication and consistent effort. Sportsmanship is paramount, emphasizing respect for opponents, teammates, and officials.
Youth sports teach life lessons as long as adults don’t get in the way Read More »
Parents are smart to exercise discernment before stepping into a difficult circumstance their child faces. Failure is part of life. We adults get that — and we probably have grown tremendously because of a setback or two. Many of us might even say, “I appreciate some of the difficult things that have come my way because
Let’s not steer our children away from ‘hard things’ Read More »
Raising resilient kids is like nurturing little oak trees amid life’s storms. It’s about teaching them to bend without breaking and to weather adversity with courage and grace. We cultivate resilience by allowing them to stumble and fall, knowing they have the strength to rise again. It’s in fostering a sense of optimism and in
Raising resilient kids Read More »
My nephew was a very young boy when he blurted out some colorful language at an appropriate time. The salty expression fit the moment, but he should have expressed his sentiments differently. His parents were clearly embarrassed as one stammered, “Where did you learn that?” Without hesitation, my nephew simply said, “Dad.” Sometimes we parents
Lessons are caught more than taught Read More »
It has been my experience that being a great father to your children often means that you are intentional in your interactions, you create space for your children to have uninterrupted access to you, and you look for teachable moments. Often a dad will hope, and maybe assume, his mere presence and proximity will accomplish
The search for humility Read More »
