Navigating the modern world presents unique challenges: how do we equip our children to thrive within it, while also fostering a sense of inner strength and biblical values that transcend its fleeting trends? It’s about teaching them to be “in the world, but not of it”—a delicate balance that requires more than just good intentions. […]
Being a dad is a multifaceted role, a constant juggling act of providing, protecting, and guiding. But beyond the day-to-day tasks, there’s a deeper calling, a profound responsibility that can shape the very soul of your family: spiritual leadership. It’s not about being a preacher or a theologian; it’s about being a beacon of faith,
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I was reading some recent poll results, outlining common parental behaviors that frustrate teenagers, and they painted a vivid picture of the delicate balancing act inherent in modern parent-teen relationships. These frustrations are not merely superficial annoyances; they reflect deeper struggles for autonomy, respect, and understanding during a critical developmental phase. Analyzing these points reveals
We have hundreds of conversations with our children throughout the year. They take on all kinds of different shapes, sizes, colors, and levels of importance. But how often do you ever follow up with your child about the outcome of these exchanges? Let’s say a father and his teenage son have a serious conversation about
Raising children to be winners in life is a monumental task that requires not just love and support, but also intentional, strategic efforts to shape their character, values, and skills. It’s not about achieving academic success or winning competitions alone, but about fostering resilience, confidence, empathy, and a strong sense of self-worth. To achieve this,
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A lot of us heard our parents say it a thousand times while we were growing up: “Obey your mother and father,” or “Honor your father and mother.” They might have been quoting Ephesians 6:1-3: “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 Honor your father and mother, 3 that it may go well with
Recently, I was meeting with a dad who has been working on being a better version of himself around his children. He had strung together a few good days in a row, working and implementing some better and intentional practices, but then he had a bad day. He blew it, and he was not sure
When a child is grappling with a difficult decision or a challenging situation, the instinctual response of many parents is to give advice or solutions. While this well-intentioned impulse stems from a desire to protect and guide, it inadvertently can hinder a child’s ability to develop critical thinking, problem-solving skills, and self-reliance. Instead, a more
A father’s vision for his children is a powerful tool that can shape their futures in profound ways. It acts as a compass, guiding them towards a path of purpose, resilience and fulfillment. Here’s why a father’s vision is so important: A father’s vision is not just about imposing expectations, but about providing guidance and
The internet, parenting magazines and well-meaning advice from family and friends often overwhelm parents with seemingly endless streams of dos and don’ts. From strict parenting styles to permissive ones, the spectrum of approaches actually can blur the vision of what you will and will not do to raise your children to be the best version
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