As a high school wrestling coach for 35 years, I have jumped into competition thousands of times, standing mat-side for 35,000 individual matches and feeling every emotion, from heartbreak to elation. I love competition, and I’m not a big fan of losing; however, I have learned how not to put winning in front of other
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Sometimes we don’t mean to hurt, but we do. In our society, the role of a father is often idealized — sometimes to an impossible degree. We see images of strong, silent types; weekend warriors; or endlessly patient mentors. While many fathers strive to embody these ideals, and indeed, many succeed admirably, the reality is
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I recently was watching a post-game interview with Draymond Green of the Golden State Warriors, and out of nowhere, he shared a story about one of his teammates. These were his words: “I want to mention something that I saw today that no one will care about. Trayce Jackson-Davis did something on the bench today.
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Embrace these five questions, not as a shield against engagement, but as a guide toward meaningful connection.
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We all envision our children not just surviving, but truly flourishing. Yet sometimes our well-meaning actions inadvertently strip them of the very tools they need to navigate life’s inevitable storms, such as mental toughness and resilience. Please allow me to explain by sharing a story: I recently received a phone call from a frustrated Dad.
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Being a father isn’t a sprint; it’s a marathon – a “long game” where the daily choices and intentional actions you take today ripple outwards, shaping the adults your children become. Let’s delve into the profound and lasting benefits that arise when fathers consciously engage in raising their children. From fostering emotional resilience and strong
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As parents, we pour our hearts into nurturing our children’s growth in countless ways, yet the desire for them to embrace their faith without reservation often sits as a profound hope. In a culture where faith often is met with skepticism, or even ridicule, how do we move beyond simply teaching them Bible stories to
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Navigating the modern world presents unique challenges: how do we equip our children to thrive within it, while also fostering a sense of inner strength and biblical values that transcend its fleeting trends? It’s about teaching them to be “in the world, but not of it”—a delicate balance that requires more than just good intentions.
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Being a dad is a multifaceted role, a constant juggling act of providing, protecting, and guiding. But beyond the day-to-day tasks, there’s a deeper calling, a profound responsibility that can shape the very soul of your family: spiritual leadership. It’s not about being a preacher or a theologian; it’s about being a beacon of faith,
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I was reading some recent poll results, outlining common parental behaviors that frustrate teenagers, and they painted a vivid picture of the delicate balancing act inherent in modern parent-teen relationships. These frustrations are not merely superficial annoyances; they reflect deeper struggles for autonomy, respect, and understanding during a critical developmental phase. Analyzing these points reveals
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